Why are parents all the same? I'm 19 now, and I have been guided till date, and why can't they see that I can take my own decisions? That I can be responsible for my own actions? That i know not to misuse freedom?
ya, they do care a lot, but don't they see that quarells for simple things just tear the bond between us? n dat it jus keeps gettin weaker... the first thing i want to do when i can earn a living is to move out... :) that sounds harsh, but, i think relationships are better maintained when u r far off... wid parents i mean.
i do love them a lot too,i like goin out wid them, sitting down n just chatting wid them, but y don't they understand that i love doing that with my friends too?
Unarguably, frnds r ppl who see shades of you which your parents would never(pray, nvr! :P) n they accept you for what you are n vice versa. There are no issues, no hard feelings, no pressures bearing down on you to try achieveing great positions academically every second of your life...
You can just be! you know, jus be your own self, living every moment completely n fully... there are greater things to achieve acc to me in life than jus pure F****** academic sucess al the while...though dats imp too... ya, job satisfaction s imp, definetly s, but dats not all. Y don't parents realise that?
Don't they pause a moment to wonder that they too went through the same phases we r goin thru(n i hope v wont b d same parents to our children too..lol) n dont they ever pause to understand?? ever? neveR?
Probably, dats y they r caled parents... :)
contd...
if u can talk about something, you might as well as follow it first. isn't that what gandhiji or somebody say. Hell, right.I usually don't talk about things i don't do, then y do parents tend to do so? They talk about laws n rules when it comes to us, but do they follow them all? NOO... nobody's perfect, but you can have the grace to admit it. Why is there an ego thing here? y cant parents just admit it? I know this is like a rebel , but then i also wonder, whom am i rebelling against, them or my ownself?
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- sahityav
- im a simple, frank, straight-forward, usually honest, optimistic, cheerful, altruistic, vivacious theist. im jus me n i luv myself dnt walk as if u own this world, walk as if u dont care who does----> dats attitude. n lifes always beautiful, u jus need to acknowledge it. cn u ans this- y do i feel alone thou surrounded by many? or blissful at times wen im all lonely?
6 comments:
This is a nice post... every teenager feels d same :P lol... and every parent is d same way.. u cant blame them.. they r parents.. and they deserve it ;)
but, ya... parents should let their children spend time with frens
hhhmm honey u remembr hw i felt abt this...v r kinda sailing in the same boat bt may b v'll understand them wen v'll have kids like us 4 ourselves...
god i dread it..4 the same reason i dont wan2 b a parent myself..[:P]
lol... kada...
hmm ur ryt........i too feel it d same way...sometyms......good work....
errrr...to begin with, about the perfect thing, ur right- noone is perfect. and maybe neither are our parents.....but due to our anger/indignance/ego, we tend to forget the fact that they know that they aren`t perfct...they`re just tryin to make us perfect, so that we lead perfect lives.We can`t blame them for wanting us to lead better lives.
there`s a lot that i can say about this topic, but i DO NOT have the patience to sit and type...donno how u ppl type so much:P
perfect lives... bt then again, wt s perfect? who decides it? wt mite b perfect acc to them may not b d perfect thing acc to me or prbly nt d 'perfect thing' i wanna do wid ma life...
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